(Lessons From Ray Charles).

If you were blind from the age of 6 when you were still innocent and hadn’t understood what sex was, would you still be able to cheat and keep multiple sex partners as a man?

I will answer that question in a jiffy.

When we say that men are polygamous by nature it is not an excuse for infidelity. It is a fact of nature (man’s lower nature). A nature that very few exceptional and highly spiritual men can overcome.

I have seen an handicap who had multiple sex partners.

And yes it is possible for a man who was blind from childhood to cheat and keep multiple sex partners.

Contrary to popular belief, a man who sleeps with multiple women at a time doesn’t do so because of what he sees with his eyes on a daily basis (lust of the eyes) but because his body itself is a slave to sin.

Left to his devices, the natural man will sleep with multiple women in his lifetime, whether he is tempted by sight or not.

Ray Charles was an American Musical Icon. A talented singer, pianist and saxophonist. He died in year 2004 in his 70s.

He became completely blind at age 6 due to juvenile glaucoma.

He was married twice, both of which ended in divorce. His second marriage suffered due to Ray’s incessant drug abuse and infidelity.

Ray fathered 12 children from 10 different women. (Read that again).

That means apart from his legitimate children born in wedlock, 9 other women whom he didn’t marry had babies for him.

That was a man who became blind at age 6.

When I saw the biopic of Ray Charles in the movie titled “Ray” which had a few raunchy scenes and sounds, I wondered how and why a blind man could love women so much.

He never got to see these women but that didn’t stop him from having hot sex with them and impregnating them.

The point is this;

• If a blind man could not resist women whom he never saw, you can imagine the moral discipline that men with two naked and seeing eyes will need to avoid sexual temptation.

Nobody can argue that Ray Charles was tempted or lured to cheat by firm boobs, fresh thighs, curvy hips or a pretty face. We can even argue that he couldn’t have imagined what any of those would look like since he was blind at the innocent age of 6.

The only thing that could possibly tempt Ray were perhaps a woman’s body smell, touch or voice.

If a blind man could cheat, then men who see nudity on the streets and on their TV screens everyday should be excused, if not pardoned, at least for cheating.

The crazy part in the Ray story is the fact that there were women who couldn’t care less about his blindness. This shows that if you are rich, famous and successful, women would sleep with you even if you are blind.

I am sorry to say this bitter truth, but MOST women actually have no standards where money and fame are concerned. As long as they can profit from you, your resources and your brand or name, most women would willingly spread their legs for you.{Respect and Apologies pls}
×But truth MUST be told.

For most women, rules only apply to you if you are poor or a nonentity.

“I cannot date him. He is too ugly”.
“I cannot stand him. He is too illiterate”.
“I cannot be with him. He is disrespectful.”

My guy, remember that 10 women rushed a blind man and had babies for him.

Rules and standards from women are mostly for men with no added value. When women see value, many of their rules either bend or break for you. That’s when you’d hear things like;

“He is not fine but I like his spirit.”
“He is uneducated but caring.”
“He can be rude sometimes but most times it is my fault. I frustrate him.”

You have two naked seeing eyes and a woman will still think you are not good enough, whereas 10 women had babies for one blind man.

This post illustrates the nature of both genders.

Men are polygamous by nature. They go for variety and exercise many options. Women are hypergamous by nature. They go for men with superior social and economic status otherwise called High-Value men, regardless of their looks, height or even manners in some cases.

When you understand your nature as a gender, you can easily master and tame it. But when you make excuses and deny your nature, you only become more of what you hate.

truthissacred

Selah.