✓ She speaks to him with a caring tone
✓ She gives him peace
✓ She doesn’t compare him with other men; she inspires him to be the best version of himself
✓ She doesn’t shout or scold him as if he is incompetent
✓ She doesn’t belittle him when he is down or going through loss
✓ She corrects him lovingly in private; away from the children (if they’re married) and the public
✓ She doesn’t announce to people the things she has done for him and how he would be nothing without her
✓ She brings to attention his few weaknesses without forgetting his many strengths
✓ She doesn’t give him silent treatment to punish him
✓ She doesn’t say hurtful things just because she is mad
✓ She acknowledges his good traits in private and in public
✓ She doesn’t do mean things to teach him a lesson
✓ She suggests instead of ordering
✓ She doesn’t treat him well only when the pastor or in-laws are watching. Her treatment is consistent, not a show.
✓ She gives him room to lead and participate; involving him in coming up with decisions.
To your continuous growth and wellness