Emotional affair is a deadly blow to any marriage. Both men and women cheat but emotional affair is more common to women than men. They see it as a close substitute to having sex with a man who is not their spouse…
In case you think your opposite sex friendship means nothing, here are the 10 signs you are already having an affair…
- You think about that man/woman all the time.
- You always look forward to talking to them, chatting, and sending messages throughout the day.
- It gets emotional. You use the words “I love you”, “I miss you”, “you are so important to me”, “dear”, “sweetheart” with butterflies in your stomach while pretending you feel nothing and lying to yourself nothing is going on between the two of you.
- You always look forward to chatting with them.
- Your discussions are getting deeply emotional e.g, “please, don’t leave me…”, “I can never do without you”, “you are the most important person in my life”, “I love you” “I can’t do without you.”
- You compare them with your spouse and despise your partner while admiring your “friend.”
- You begin to keep off sex in marriage while longing to have sex with your friend.
- It gets erotic with deep, intense sexual feelings, pressure.
- You have mental images of kissing, romancing and having sex with them.
- You look forward to meeting them in secret.
What more shall I say?
If you do not break the relationship at this point, you will sleep with them and you will regret it.
Keep off any relationship that stir your hormones in opposite directions away from your spouse….
Stick to your spouse. Don’t allow distractions.
Remain blessed!